I need some help :/

Hey Guys,

so to start with somthing positive i cut my hair today ^_^ it's alot shorter now than before, until my shoulders. it's weird that i don't have long hair over my shoulders (for now, it grows back fast :p ) but they cut it a little to short but i like it and it doesn't look bad.

but anyway you probebly wouldn't care so i will go on. so why did i write as titel: i need some help :/ . there is a good reason for that. so i won't go in to the little details because i will hurt someone with that and i don't want that. sooooo i litterly need some advice because i have been struggeling with this the past couple of weeks:

so anyway i will go straight to the point like i always do and like to do. soooo these last couple weeks i have been doing somthing that goes against my opinion and feelings. i am trying to learn how to love myself but this just drains my energy and hope but if i stop it will destroy someone else who i care about above every thing else. if i stop the person could break down and give up hope and i wouldn't want that. i will still be by there side and try helping but i don't know what to choose. should i keep going and help them keep there mood and hope up but go against my feelings or should i stop and go with my feelings but risk that the person could give up hope and breaks down? i am struggeling with this for the last couple weeks and it's honestly breaking me down so i need some help so please can anybody give me some good advice. i don't care how long your reply is just send it to me please, i can really use it because i don't know what to do.

but thanks for reading this ^_^ i hope you all have a great day

and stay positive <3

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JustAPunnyGuy 2017-02-18 17:48:36

Hey kid, you can never fail at what you do, you can always keep trying, no matter how hard it is, no matter what get's in the way.

NyanaCreation 2017-02-18 17:48:36

haha gosh i haven't been called a kid in a long while but what do you mean by that? should i go with that feels right and can't i go wrong? could you explain that please.
(but thanks ^_^)

JustAPunnyGuy 2017-02-18 17:53:46

Just try to do what feels right to you, bud.

NyanaCreation 2017-02-18 17:53:46

your sure? what if i make the wrong choice and i ruen somthing with that?
i know it's bad but i care about the person.
(i hate making this kind of decions)

JustAPunnyGuy 2017-02-18 18:05:13

We all have to make sacrifices, don't we?

NyanaCreation 2017-02-18 18:05:13

yah true, i guess we can't stop sacrifices (i'm just sick of them i have made sacrifices from
when i remember) but i will mabey go with my gut than.
but thanks your a big help so thanks bud ^_^

MchectorII 2017-02-18 21:12:12

While it's noble of you to sacrifice so much for someone else,you might want to bring in a third person,someone whom you can trust like a teacher or counsellor,to help.This way,you can get a break from deciding if you should carry on helping your friend or not and your friend can get the advice and support s/he needs at the same time.Your friend may not like the idea,so you need to let her/him know how all this makes you feel and that having someone else to help her/him isn't really a bad thing and that you are doing this because you care for her/him as friend.

NyanaCreation 2017-02-18 21:12:12

that sounds like an good idea, i will think about using that idea,
thank you so much this is a huge help ^_^

I need some help :/

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