TheReviewTrickster 2018-06-25 05:26:34

I don't have any experience on the subject, so I can't offer much advice, but I just wanted to show some support. Try to remember they're just dreams, and always keep that in mind. You've obviously tried that already, but it's all the advice I have.

Belyaevs-Fox 2018-06-25 04:38:11

Have you tried talking to a professional therapist? They might be able to help you with your mental health before it gets worse.

MchectorII 2018-06-25 02:08:01

Oh dear,that's terrible to hear and I hope those dreams didn't affect you too much.
I have done some reading about dreams and their meanings and it turns out that while it has been said that dreams are nothing more than just dreams,they actually reflect on one's quality of life.If we are stressed or sad while we're awake,there's a chance our minds will replay these moments in the form of our dreams/nightmares while we're asleep and sometimes,they can appear quite scary.I am not an expert in this but I suppose the mind works like a tape recorder,it records events and then unconsciously(?) replays them later.The best way to deal with this to try and relax your mind before bed by listening to music or doing your favourite activity to take your mind off those bad times or simply talk to someone you trust about it and seek advice from them.For now,these are a few of the ways I can think of,I will try to come up with more and then share them with you.Take care and get better soon,my friend!

Here's an article that I read from,hope it helps!:
https://www.huffingtonpost.com/dreamscloud/you-will-never-view-viole_b_12317982.html

DrakoCreator 2018-06-24 23:22:37

this is really long you strive to make these post and I congratulate you are good at doing it ;)

MchectorII 2018-06-25 23:35:40

@MchectorII @NyanaCreation Thank goodness,that's good to hear!Don't worry too much about those bad dreams and if you feel like talking about it,feel free to do so(like your post above).Also,thanks for the music!

VikingWalker 2018-06-27 00:14:48

Wow. What a terrifying dream, Nyana :(
I would also be scared if experienced all the terror you did in this latest dream. (Almost?) losing your partner, almost sacrificing yourself so that they could live, by transferring your blood. Then the first scene in the hospital, then the silence... oufh, I really hope you never dream anything like that again!

You know I've had some pretty disturbing, unsettling, and creepy nightmares, 1 was especially bad. Those have awoken me, with a feeling of horror to go along with the images from the nightmare, and anyone who have had bad nightmares, know it's not pleasant.

It's 1 thing to see your brain create the dream and experience the nightmare. That's bad enough. Another thing, that comes later is "why?". When I get a nightmare, I'm rarely sure of the cause of it. You know I like to overthink... I come with theories: "Why did my brain come up with something so sick and/or scary? Is it to be mean, to show me what I fear? Is it an attempt from my subconscious to challenge my conscious side? Or is it just what I've thought, heard, seen and read today or the last couple of days, but infused with some terror?" What do you think, Nyana?

The answer, for me, varies with the nightmare. Sometimes I don't reach a conclusion at all. I sometimes try my best, and succeed, in pushing the nightmare away, to the edge of my memory... when I think and write about these kinds of things, nightmares, my worst one comes back, but only for a moment. Sorry, I'm ranting again.

The study of dreams and nightmares is a fascinating topic in my opinion. It's personal psychology. It's also psychology on a larger scale if the nightmare is clearly inspired by an event witnessed by many people (for example an event in a video game bought by thousands).

Anyway, dreams and nightmares have mattered for as long as they have existed. The Pharaohs of ancient Egypt were very serious about interpreting dreams and nightmares, and their priests and oracles would analyze them to figure out what they meant, if the dream/nightmare was indicating a good or bad event that was going to happen. These days, dream-study is not as visible in our western society, but I hope that can chance. A lot can be learned about the mind, and from the mind, by thinking about what and why we experienced what we did in our REM-sleep (Rapid Eye Movement, that's the fast eye-movement phase of our sleep, when they move right/left quickly, as you mentioned in a comment ;) )

But know this, Nyana: we, your fans, are all willing to help you and talk to you about anything bad you share with us. And we are here to share the joys when they come ^_^

P.S.:
That thing that happened to you when you were "forced" to sleep in the hospital, but wasn't sure which word it was... was it "sedated"? Did the doctor use narcosis on you? Because when a person get narcosis, then they do actually get a breathing mask over their face, and are asked to slowly count backwards from 10 to 1, at least in my case. I don't think I came to 6 xD

Jabicho 2018-06-30 17:16:24

Ow that sounds like a very terrifying situation! I share these experiences with you, althought it wasn't this year, in the past I had dreams where I was shot (and the sensation in the body was so real, I even woke up with chest pain). And I remember another time when i dreamt of something falling down in my city, like 3 huge meteors, and the last one was falling where I was with friends, and I just kept there seeing it fall and losing hope, and the everything turned white , and in the dream I was like "wow, so this is the end, all white, all empty), it was horrible >_<

You have my support too :), when you share your experiences I'm sure everyone can feel identified, and we can notice we're not alone, that we share a lot of things and can overcome them together :)

EMBL3M 2018-07-07 21:42:32

Terrifying. Those really are terrible. My dreams are similar (realistic; you think you're actually in the situation; lucid), and they wake me up in terror. Hope it gets better eventually, I'll keep you in my prayers.
Reading your account of the dream actually inspired me to write a song, which is called Night Terror partly because of the nature of the song, and partly because of this story you recounted. Should be done in the near future.
Again, best wishes to you. Praying that it'll get better.

Natcl23 2018-07-12 12:10:12

I know that feeling, I had some ex Experiences like that before, in nightmare too, not for real, obviously. I know the feeling of being unable to do anything while our loved one are dying, feeling left alone or feeling like a burden to everyone else. It’s scary how deep It can affect your emotions and all that. I know that feeling. It stick with you.